Was Ours Then We Lost It (True Love)

Almost 3 yrs ago I let my true love go, not because I didn't love him, but because at the time I thought it was the right thing to do. You may have all heard of my story - (Lessons in true love sometimes means letting go)? Well I still think of him very much and hurt from the lack of his touch and from the songs he would sing to me.

This Man was very much in love with me. Every time we were with each other he would give me his fullest attention and I would give him mine in return. Every time we were apart we would feel that crazy feeling until we would be wrapped up in each other’s arms again. Then the day came that we would say "so-long"... it was not a bad break-up or anything, it was a heartfelt one, meaning that we parted with broken hearts because we were still so much In love with each other He was needed by his children who lived thousands of miles away from me and I have children here where they needed to be at the time because their father was here too, (not living with me). I had no choice but to stay, at least that’s what I thought at the time.

 After Bryan had left I waited for a call or an email, anything that would let me know he was safe, but I never received anything from him for a long time. I started thinking, was it only me hurting as bad as it seemed? I would talk to his friend Nick and ask, "Has he heard from Bryan?", 'yes! And he is doing fine.'

 I was so hurt that he would call Nick and not me because I thought he would be more concerned about me and how I was getting on with my life.

 I kept getting news from Nick about what Bryan was doing but still no word, then I heard that Bryan found himself a lady!

 My heart broke.

 After 6 months I came to terms with it - at least I thought I come to terms that it was over. I had started leaning on my best 'online - male friend, Bob'. We started getting serious about each other after a few months, maybe because at the time we were just two lonely people. In the meantime things were getting really bad at home, my ex was harassing me and I started getting concerned for my Childs mental health, and my own, so I did what I thought at the time was best for us. I moved to another state which gave my twin an advantage and Bob treated me good but seemed always frustrated with me because he is so set in his ways ( which he never showed me online, but not in a bad way, just a snobbish kind of way at times).

 During sometimes Bob is very good to me and I do Love him. After being here a few months Bryan showed up online and we started talking as friends even now deep down I was upset with him but I pretended to be over him.

 These are the childish things all of us do sometimes in life I guess, but a year later we started opening up again. Bryan now lives with another woman and he loves her very much it have even just completed upon a home they bought to live in and his children have given him a lot of grief since his return.

 A few days ago he told me how special I was and told me he was still in love with me and missed me so much. He told me he was always proud to be by my side and told me he thought of me often and that I was beautiful and missed how we would write songs together and sing. He even told me I was the Best woman he has ever been with. And I told him I still loved him too and missed him with all my heart and all my soul but we have a problem now and we both are very caring to people around us. See now we have other partners and we don't have the heart to hurt them because for one I know Bob has been hurt 3 times in his life by women leaving him for another man and I am not sure of Bryan’s girlfriend's past relations but I do see the pain in Bob’s eyes still from his heartbreaks and I won't be the cause of another. So now I have to live once again with this yearning inside me and the need to be with Bryan because I can’t leave Bob without him wanting me to go himself. All I can say is I love Bob very much and I thank him for taking my children and me into his life and sheltering us from the pain I felt when I let Bryan go and for saving me from the mental abuse that my ex was throwing at me and saving my Children’s, also for treating my kids like his own. I do Thank Bob very much so. But I also want to thank Bryan for letting me experience true love because he did a lot for me too and to let the whole world know I still am very much In love with him and no matter how hard I try I will carry him inside my heart till the day I die because I want so bad to be with him but I can't do that to Bob and he surely can't do that to his Lady either. Aching Inside Always, A