Fulfill your Partner Sexually

Sex life in marriage is not automatic any more than it is only animal. It is an experimental, explorative adventure which two persons may undertake together over a long period of time. There are adjustments just as there are in all other aspects of marriage.
Healthy sexual satisfaction results from harmony in other areas of marriage. Only as a couple learn the meaning of genuine love, as they practice accepting one another at face value, as they work at the art of appreciating one another, as they learn principles effective communication, as they loosen individual differences and preferences, as they adapt to a workable supportive relationship of mutual respect and trust, can they expect a mutually satisfying sexual experience. Sometimes sexual intercourse refers as “body conversation,” implying that both body and personality come in contact with each other during sexual union.

It takes time to adjust sexually after marriage. This sometimes comes as a shock to many couples who thought they would attain instant harmony. Research shows that he most husbands and wives marry with little specific information concerning the physiology of sex or the emotional factors regarding the opposite sex. It takes time, understanding, patience; study, experimentation, and open discussion before a couple can master the ultimate in a fulfilling sexual relationship.
A common problem in marriage arises when one mate desires sexual relations more frequently than the other. Although men most frequently make this complaint, more recently women, particularly in the over-forty age bracket, are also wishing for more frequent sexual intercourse. Statistic on frequency tend to make us preoccupied with numbers, but studies of committed Christians indicate that coitus three times a week is average during the entire course of marriage.
When the needs of a problem arises in couple’s love life, they tend to eliminate the topic from their conversation in hope that if they don’t mention it, it will go away. For example, some couples never discuss their sex life. In survey I personally conducted of committed Christians, only 43% of the men and 38% of the women felt free to discuss sexual intimacies often with their partners. Then 10%of the males and 25% of the women never or only rarely did so. The most common reason listed by women for avoiding such discussion was that they felt embarrassed.