1. Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat
 2. Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
 3.You are my true soul mate, no doubt to that.
 4.You bring out the best in me.
 5. Just a sight of you lifts my up spirits.
 6. You have taught me what it is to love and be loved.
 7. I can be clumsy and foolish when I am with you, yet know that your love for me will never diminish.
 8. Your smile is enough to make a my day seem so bright as sun.
 9. Being in your arms makes me feel like I can never be lost again.
10.We can talk about everything or nothing--it's always okay with you

11. I can feel your love, the way you look,'cause it touches my heart and soul
12. Because of you, no matter what may come tomorrow, today my life is more complete.
13. I just can't imagine being me without you
14.You gave meaning to my existence.
15.You are the only one who can make me smile even in my deepest sorrows.
16.I respect the faith you have in me and love you for it.
17.I get lost in the depth of your mysterious eyes.
18.You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what
19.The way that you always look for and find the positive in everything
20.I can be myself when I am with you.

I can't stop thinking of you, I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everybody in the world, you know, and when you found that person the rest of the world kind of magically faded away, and, you know, the two of you would just be inside this kind of protective bubble, but there is no bubble, I mean if there is you have to make it.

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. Thats what I hope to give you forever.

There are millions of people in this world, but in the end it all comes down to one. I still panic sometimes, forget to breathe, but I know that theres something beautiful in my imperfections; the beauty that you held up for me to see. The strength that I will never be able to say. Destiny is something we've invented because we cant stand the fact that everything that happens is accidental.

And I believe that when you love someone, and you love them with your heart, it never disappears. When you're apart, and when you love someone, and you've done all you can do, you set them free. And if that love was true… when you love someone, it will all come back to you.

You see I never stopped loving you, even though I couldn't see you. I love you. You're my only reason to stay alive… if thats what I am.

The old car has just been washed and waxed. To passersby it looks shiny, almost new. But underneath the surface, destroying rust is eating away the body of the vehicle. It is similar with some families. Although to outward appearances everything looks fine, smiling faces hide fears and pain. Behind closed doors destroying elements are eating away at family peace. Two problems that can this effect are alcoholism and violence.

People around does not condemn the moderate use of alcoholic beverages, even the bible, but it does condemn drunkenness. Alcoholism is more than drunkenness; it is a chronic preoccupation with alcohol drink and a loss of control over their consumption. Alcoholics can be adults. Sadly, they can also be youths.

Misuse of alcohol can destroy family peace. The effects of alcoholism are felt by the entire family. The spouse may become absorbed in efforts to stop the alcoholics drinking or to cope with his unpredictable behavior. She tries concealing the liquor, throwing it away, hiding his money, and appealing to his love for family, for life, even for God- but the alcoholic still drinks. As her efforts to control his drinking meet with repeated failure, she feels frustrated and inadequate. She may begin suffer from fear, anger, guilt, nervousness, anxiety, and lack of self-respect.
Children do not escape the effects of parents alcoholism. Some are physically. Others are molested sexually. They may even blame themselves for a parents alcoholism. Frequently their ability to trust others is shattered by the alcoholics inconsistent behavior. Because they cannot comfortably talk about what is happening at home, the children may learn to suppress their feelings, often with harmful physical consequences. Such children may carry this lack of self confidence or self-respect right into adulthood.

              In any dozen wedded couples,” four will jump overboard; maybe six will stay on board without joy or love it’s just because of children, careers, family or probably church; and only two will enjoy a complete marriage.          
              This figure is eye catching and attention seeker…even myself don’t know how to deal with it, or shall I say I can’t really imagine my own marriage life falling into this almost 80% of reality about marriage. I personally believe that marriage is happen were two individual meet, bound by love, have a commitment to be with each other, promises happen to grow old together and with the blessing of the Lord above getting married happen. Bowed each other for better or for worse for richer or for poorer in sickness and in health ‘till death do you part. That’s exactly what marriage is all about for all I know….

               Many couples fall in love, marry and they think that the task is over that's it. they try to feel that everything else will work out automatically. But things are hardly away from the truth. A successful marriage does not come spontaneously or by chance. instead, a happy marriage or the successful marriage involves two people working out small difficulties as well as the big once.
               For me I defined marriage as "the total commitment of the total person for a total way of life." They don't have to marry for convenience, to escape from a bad home situation, or to give a baby a name is not barely enough goal for a successful marriage, for marriage is a union of love involve all areas of life: emotion, physical, intellectual,  and spiritual.