Love should never be associated with the word “hurt” it can hurt so much that it can breaks someone’s heart. Heartbreak isn’t always avoidable. But it just may be repairable.
Sometimes fate deals you a lousy hand. A lover is forced to move away, someone steals your lover’s heart from you, or death cuts your heart in two with his cut down.
Avoidable heartbreaks are the most tragic. You’re already together, but something is trying to pull you apart. It starts with a wound-real or perceived. An apology would cause the wound to heal, but pride and stubbornness or stupidity keeps that apology locked inside.
That one wound might not make gluing together that many pieces of a shattered mirror worthwhile, a love is not so easily replaced. If there is any chance at making a repair, even if it takes bringing in an outside craftsperson, then that’s what you should do. Otherwise you may spend the rest of your life stepping on those shards of your love scattered all around your life. Each shard is labeled with a “what if” and each is capable of causing endless pain. They can be dulled by the years, swept away by a new love, or used for endless episodes of self-pity.
The solution is to become a fortuneteller-to see into the future and realize that the love needs to be put above all else. Petty emotions have to be put aside to protect the bond between the partners.
When someone suffers a heart attack, it’s obvious that every seconds counts and that the patient needs immediate attention. It’s not as obvious to many people that the same is true for a broken heart. Too often people wait until it is too late to get help to repair their relationship. The moment to seek professional counseling is the second you see that the problem is out of control. Waiting, even days, may make any form of intervention ineffectual.
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