Some days you may push love aside, other times love may push you around. Just make certain in your heart and in your head that you are working in unison when creating your canvas of love.
Since, you “fall” in love; many people treat love as if it were some strange beast over which they have no control. But you have more say over your emotions than you think. Put a sad movie on the VCR and you’ll cry. Dance to your favorite pop tune and your spirits will pick-up. You can have a similar effect on the setting of your love dial.
While love can be overwhelming at times, or so subtle you can’t tell it’s there, that doesn’t absolve you from honing your skills as a lover. The best lovers have the most control, not least.
Even if you’re head over heels in love, you should keep some control, or you risk driving away the person you adore. These are times to go overboard and other times to bank that excess love.
And at the other extreme, it your schedule is crammed twenty-four hours a day, you can’t forget that you have a partner who has needs that must be met. Sure, there are days when you can take out a loan that you promise to pay back with interest, but you can also overextend that type of credit and wind up bankrupt. You don’t need any special skills to be an artist at love. You just need to always aware that you are a lover at heart.
Just like painter mixes colors to come up with various shades. You must do the same because even love can be boring if it becomes too monotone. So some days, even if you’re not feeling overly romantic, turn up the heat. Shout “I love you” across the room. Put a little more oomph into that hug. Not only will your partner appreciate your use of the brighter colors in your palette, but it will probably change your mood as well.
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